Parents play in developing the personality of their children. Parents are role models for children in their early years. Afterwards, the role of teachers, other members in the family, relatives and friends has definite impact on the children’s behavior.

During childhood, the child naturally depends, physically and mentally on others. During this growing period, he expects (besides other necessities), to have caring, loving, relationship and also friendship, from near and dear. If he obtains the above things in early life, it means we are providing him a healthy mental atmosphere and the child grows with full self- confidence.

While growing, the children might have many experiences, which bring sufficient changes in their thinking, feelings and behavior pattern. Children respond accordingly to our behavior (which may be positive or negative). So be cautious while dealing with children. Parents’ behavior reflects in children. They act as mirrors to our actions.

How does Parents personality affect child?

1. Parents’patience and excusing mentality teaches children the quality of forbearance.

2. If parents give sufficient safety to their children, automatically they develop full confidence, not only in the parents but also in the surrounding society.

3. Give full support to the good deeds done by the children, that act of yours inculcate and create confidence in them and also it boost up their morality.

4. Teach them the techniques in making friendship with colleagues, it helps them to love others.

5. Never exhibit displeasure or angry with children, as it leads to despair and they prefer to move away from the society and do not much interest to mingle with relatives and others.

6. Too much criticism of children makes them cowards and also they suffer from inferiority complex.

At present, the changing values in the modern families, causing lot of pressure and mental tension in children and more over they have to spend most of the time in loneliness, there by they are not getting the natural care, love, affection from their parents. It is creating confusion and the abnormal feeling living among the foreigners not with the parents. This type of living conditions must go and he loving atmosphere should prevail.

Quote: “Child is the father of the man”.

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